This is a widely debated topic among the different Christian denominations. If one person’s external circumstances are better than another person’s, does that mean they have more of God’s favor? What about the boy sitting in the slums in India with no job, riches or earthly treasures? Before I start writing on this topic, I want you to know I’m 100% convinced of the following:
- God is a good God with no darkness or malice in Him
- He cares for us more than the best earthly father does
- He does not send sickness or suffering our way to teach us something
- He gave us everything by giving up His Son
The problem with the blessing-mentality is that it causes you to base the measure of God’s love for you on how well things are going in your life, how much money you make or how many of your prayers have been answered. I have experienced many crises of faith because of this doctrine. My relationship with God suffered greatly because of the confusion, anger and disappointment that followed after I experienced two miscarriages. In my mind this meant God had deserted me, and that I had lost His favor. It did not make sense after hearing messages about how no harm will ever come to me, or how I cannot be touched by any suffering as a Christian.
We are blessed because of what Jesus did for us on the cross. He purchased our freedom and eternal life by giving up His life. Our greatest gift is complete righteousness before God if we believe. We can enjoy unhindered fellowship with God, the Creator of everything, because we are not condemned any more. We can freely approach God with no shame about who we were, what we did or still do. This is true favor, and this is the definition of truly being blessed.
If things are going rough in your life take heart:
- God has not deserted you.
- You don’t experience less of His favor than the person next to you
- You are not less beloved than your outwardly blessed brother or sister.
- God has not forgotten about you – He already blessed you fully through the work of Christ
- You don’t have to feel inferior to other church members because some of your prayers are unanswered
- If you believe in Jesus you have the same measure of blessing, favor and acceptance as other Christians in seemingly better circumstances than you are in
Be kind, for every person you encounter is facing a battle you know nothing about.